Monday, November 30, 2009

Recap on Mixi Article

私は私のMIXIページの何らかのおもしろい記事を読みます。 ここで共有させてください.....

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 ささいなことでキレて教師に手をあげる子供たち。学校現場が児童・生徒の暴力に頭を悩ませている。文部科学省が30日発表した08年度の小中高校での暴力行為は約6万件に上った。現場からはかつての「校内暴力」時代よりも「指導が困難」という声が漏れる。

 埼玉県内の中学の50代の男性教師が数年前まで勤務していた学校には、突然キレて周囲のクラスメートに殴りかかる生徒がいた。止めに入ると頭突きをされ、けられた足にあざが残った。現在の中学は表面上落ち着いているが「少し注意すると腹を立てて、小突いてくる程度ならいくらでもいる」と言う。

 掃除中に遊んでいたのを注意した教師2人に殴りかかった中学3年の男子生徒を逮捕(今年6月、前橋市)、修学旅行先で男性教師をけって打撲を負わせた中学2年の男子生徒を逮捕(同11月、広島市)--。対教師暴力が統計上増えている背景には、必ずしも大けがにいたらなくても、学校側が警察に積極的に通報するようになったこともある。

 北関東のある中学の校長は数年前の赴任直後、中学3年生の男子生徒がたばこ所持を注意した教師3人に殴りかかった際に、すぐさま警察に通報した。「以前は表ざたにしたくないという意識から抵抗があったが、学校も治外法権ではない、と明確にした方が結果的に落ち着く」と話す。

 日本中で「校内暴力」が吹き荒れた70年代後半から80年代初頭のように派手な暴力行為がまん延しているわけではない。ただし、元中学教師で「学校崩壊」などの著書がある河上亮一・日本教育大学院大学教授は「『番長』を中心に組織的に学校に抵抗したのが当時の暴力。普通の子たちとの間には明確な境界があり、対応しやすかった。しかし最近は普段極めておとなしい子が突然キレて暴力的になるため、対応が困難だ」と指摘する。

 「悩める教師を支える会」を主宰し、現場教師のカウンセリングなどを行っている諸富祥彦・明治大文学部教授は「教師への暴力をきっかけにうつになり、最終的に辞めていく教師が多い。かつてのような大混乱はないが、小さな地雷がいつ爆発するか分からないのが今の学校だ」と語った。【井上俊樹】"


source: mixi.jp

wow, I don't know kids nowadays can't control their temper this much. Hahaha teachers should be more careful and creative to adept to new learning module to ensure kids can grew properly and educate them self.. Orthodox learning module and style can no longer apply to kids furthermore kids from big city. Well it may still effective to country side kids where they don't exposed much to media and entertainment. hahahaha




H.A

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Congratulations~~

Dear blog...

I've just found out my friend engaged last few days~ hahaha (how could you did not invite us). I hope she not forgot to invite us when she get married soon, anyway Sha, congratulations~~ hahaha so this post is special for u~ Don't forget to invite us to your wedding~~ :P

thank you


ps: the pic is stolen from her fb lol~~



(semoga bahagia ke anak cucu~)


H.A

Monday, November 23, 2009

What I've seen?

Dear blog...

Hi... well just finish watch movie with my friends. Somehow my head keep on thinking about something. What is it? I'm not sure... so i listen to Yui's song It's Happy Line, and came out this phrase "誰の為に生きているの?....さえない日々を過ごして..." does it explain anything? I wonder, but each time i listen to this song, somehow i felt my feeling is being expressed through each lyrics and melodic of this song.. Everything perfectly expressed... i wonder how's her feeling when she wrote this song? it is she's having same feeling that i faced now? or it just a co-incidents? The whole song is great and i keep listen to it all over again.

Thank You...




It's Happy Line

H.A

Monday, November 16, 2009

Ha..haa..haaa

Dear blog..

Hi, this week i've being sent to 3 different places for work, well it's tiring but interesting. At least more people i know and not having boring day like previous week. Well as long as the place is reachable for me i don't really mind.

Well almost each night that i work this week i took some painkiller after i back from work, well i actually want to avoid from falling sick, end up i sleep earlier hahaha. Its not good for my health thou, i think i should stop doing that.

FYP title being dropped left freaking hard title, should i took it? i don't know, my partner seems like want to drop.. may be i should go discuss with co-ordinator...

Next week i don't know where i will be sent to work, but next week i'll apply for my break...

This week... wonder what will lies ahead hahahaha..
interesting.....


That's all.. thank you~





H.A

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Perfect Weekend

Dear blog..

Working on weekend is tiring, hahaha first day for each week is great, but next 2 days is really hell~~ well may be i'm getting old? hahahaha
This 3 days, fri till sun, lot of things happen n lot of things i've learn. i learn about people, i learn about how things goes around and i learn about my self... well there still lot of other things i need to learn, hahaha i will continue learning it n digest it slowly into my brain~ :P

i will learn more about her too, hehehe . how much i know about her right now is enough for me to accept her into my heart well that at least i can say now, may be there's things i will not like about her soon, but i will accept it with open heart and i know there also might be lot of things she will hates about me soon haha but that i will let her to decide what to do, ^^
i miss her...

that's all, thank you



H.A

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Well...

Dear blog,

This trimester, ill be with my subjects, final year projects and my part time at the weekend. I wonder how i will go through this trimester, i wonder what waiting me ahead. It might get messy or might get better, but i don't mind, most of things around me always turn in to a mess but most of the time at the time i think i was giving up and no more option left for me to survive, there always be salvation, hahahaha. Yeah the salvation is not as good as i planned out but somehow it always make things better than worse. Well i actually thankful for that.. Right now there also someone supporting me, here in my heart. I can't keep from smiling when with her, hahahaha i wonder why, but i feel really comfortable around her. "Thank you for being there for me" that i wan to say to her now. Yes she's not around me, but she's here deep inside my heart thou hahahaha. We keep in touch from phones and messenger since we can't really see each other often. Well it just a begining for us, new begining i guess, but i don't care what or how things will turn out to be, but now at least we're happy ^^.

that's all for now~
thank you ^^




H.A

Monday, November 2, 2009

Hi~

Dear Blog..

Hello,
Between the interval of my last post, so many things had happened. I start working on my part time every weekend, met knew people and try new things. Well my life isn't like 360' changed, its more like 5' hahahaha just kidding~

Well my part time job, quite tired since they don't allocate me yet at fixed place, so i rush different place for these 2 week. One whole day standing and promoting stuff and met with many people makes me learn more things. My communication skills a lil bit rusty thou hahahaha, well it's all about confidence thou. Anyway i might still have 6 weeks more left to me, i hope they stationed me to nearer place to pj, coz i hope to get home by 10, hahaha.

Love life.... she's great girl, i only can cheer her up from far now, hahaha i should not interfere too much since she's with her bf hahahaha. But i really like her, ^^...yeah i know i breaking my own rules, Rule #4 never involved with other's gf... but...... hahaha never mind, just let time decide everything. (Goshhhh i miss her so much!!!!)

studies...well things always not going so well but still i'm surviving.... hope that i could faster graduate~ they keep changing the system as they like..... demm~~

well that's all for now,
thank you.





H.A